Wedding night man actually let . me cut hand loaded

Posted by admin on Tuesday Jan 17, 2012 Under Uncategorized

user talk:

I’m really ambivalent. I don’t know if I should stick to it, I always have a sense of not being respected.

 

may be because his family why don’t want him to fall in love too early, he tried to get me home. I also understood him, after all, we are still small. In the rural areas is, I grew up from the countryside natural understanding of the, so I never force him.

after one year of love, our relations have taken place in the staff quarters in the factory. He was nervous at that time lapse immediately after leaving. Then we emboldened, wages each hair he’s going to take me out to find a small hotel for the night. Because it is a hostel with a love relationship with sisters I am after the night it is not surprising. But then he didn’t tell his parents the things we love. And I’m not willing to let parents know that I, and his relationship now, worry about me because I was afraid of them.

on August 1 this year, we had two years later we finally got married. We knew each other in accordance with the rural areas the most original way he propose a marriage on a matchmaker to find my house. And we pretended not to understand the way a side, and then was love at first sight. I strongly support him for our happiness.

I can put up with these things, really can’t stand is the night of the wedding bridal chamber he let me cut my finger. In accordance with our agricultural customs, their wedding night family will spread a piece of white cloth on the bed in advance. Is designed to give brides of blood flow to the top for the first time, this way you can prove that the bride is a Virgin. We have no columns, elderly people act in the same way.

I can be difficult. A year after the factory workers ‘ hostel that I is not the first time after the. Bridal chamber blood red night how can I use this piece of white cloth do? This time he came up with a solution let me cut my fingers dripping two drops of blood.

 

under I was last in his prayer he prepared a knife cut his middle finger. Blood on the white cloth that moment my heart was so bad. Why I don’t have a birthright of marriage before getting married and I have to do that? That night while the night is the bridal chamber but nothing happened. I feel very aggrieved, and I don’t want to do anything.

until now I can’t pass my own heart that passes. Reminds me of his own fingers, and his blood on the cloth, I feel this is a nightmare as unacceptable. I don’t think he respects me. I really regret why so foolish? Now my marriage was happy. What should I do?

back:

 

you put yourself first before getting married to him, you now regret is useless. Women for the first time is very precious, you should not be hasty. But now that things have happened I think you regret there is no use. Shahe kid talk you want to open. Now that you have gave him his first, you still cherish this feeling better. When . this happens, you can ensure that our choice was not wrong.

wedding night under it is indeed a an unwise move. He thought the easiest way is to that. Rural people is very particular about these so that is why he let you do. I can understand these, I would like to let you know more than I. But he shouldn’t let you cut your finger, his argument is definitely a good reason. If it’s me, I was dead would not agree. At this point you made a mistake, you shouldn’t yield to him.

now that you have been married. I think you’d better forget about these unpleasant! Even if you have to restart it! No longer are willing to have taken place, doubt fit and what use is it? After all, you are in love with him. So long, I think you should be able to understand. And he lived, women can find their own happiness is not easy, you must not because this is the last thing to heart, to possible happiness or he’ll destroy you. Hope you think twice about!!

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